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Can I be a Single Foster Parent?

Can You Be a Single Foster Parent in Wisconsin?

Yes, you can be a single foster parent.

And across Wisconsin, single men and women are doing incredible work helping kids heal from traumatic backgrounds. They provide stability, structure, and a safe place to land.

But there’s one reality that matters more than anything else if you're interested in getting a foster license with CCR.

Availability.

What Kids Need From Single Foster Parents

At CCR, we work with children and teens who have higher levels of need, trauma histories, behavioral challenges, and often sibling placements.

That means love and good intentions aren’t enough on their own.

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To care for these kids successfully, you need:

  • A flexible schedule
  • A reliable support system
  • The ability to be present when kids are home

That’s the standard, whether you’re single or part of a couple.

Being Single Isn’t the Barrier, Your Schedule Is

There’s a common misconception that CCR requires a stay-at-home parent.

That’s not true.

We have single foster parents and working households. What we do require is this:

When kids are home, a responsible adult needs to be available.

Because our kids need more than supervision, they need structure, consistency, and support throughout the day.

Before School, After School, and Everything In Between

This is where many single, working applicants need to pause and think it through.

  • Who is getting the child ready for school in the morning?
  • Who is home when they return in the afternoon?
  • What happens during summer break, holidays, or snow days?
  • What’s the plan if a child is suspended or refuses school?
  • Who covers appointments during the workday?

So the question becomes simple:

Who is with the kids when you’re not?

Realistic Ways Single Foster Parents Make It Work

Single foster parents at CCR are successful when they have built-in flexibility.

That usually looks like:

  • Having a similar schedule to the kids
  • Working from home with flexibility for interruptions and supervision
  • Having family or trusted supports who can step in immediately

It’s not about doing it alone, it’s about having the flexibility and the right people in place.

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Your Support System Is Not Optional

Every CCR foster parent, single or not, must have a dependable backup plan.

That means someone who can:

  • Step in on short notice
  • Help during work hours
  • Be available for emergencies or unexpected disruptions

Because those moments will happen.

Appointments, school issues, emotional escalations, these are part of caring for kids with trauma. You won’t always be able to plan for them.

Why These Expectations Exist

We know this level of availability isn’t possible for everyone. And we understand that can be frustrating.

But the children we serve need more.

They need supervision. They need consistency. They need adults who can respond in real time, not hours later.

That’s what helps them stabilize. That’s what helps them heal.

Take the Next Step

If you’re considering becoming a foster parent and want to understand if your schedule and support system are a good fit, start with a conversation.

Call Jane. She will walk through it with you, honestly and clearly.

Learn more about qualifying to foster with us.

 

 

 

Foster Care Questions & Answers

Can foster parents have pets?

Absolutely. Your pets will need to be up to date on vaccines, and a pet's temperament will be discussed if there is a concern.

Can I choose the age of children I want to foster?

Foster parents can choose their preferred age range. However, if you wish to foster younger children, CCR asks for a minimum age range of 0-10 years, including openness to siblings. The greatest need across Wisconsin is more homes for young siblings and teens.

What is it like parenting kids with trauma?

Parenting children and youth who have lived through trauma is hard. Their past abuse, neglect, and chaos often show up as big emotions, challenging behaviors, and deep mistrust. Traditional parenting approaches don’t work. CCR foster parents need flexibility, patience, and a willingness to meet kids in their hardest moments so they can finally feel safe—and begin to heal. Our team will support you 24/7.

How much does it cost to become a Wisconsin foster parent?

There is NO cost to become a Wisconsin foster parent.

How long does it take to get a foster license with CCR?

Absolutely. Your pets will need to be up to date on vaccines, and a pet's temperament will be discussed if there is a concern.
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